Wedding Planning Wisdom

Wedding Planning Wisdom

Today, we continue with our regular feature “Advice from the Married Side,” sharing real-life wedding planning tips from brides and grooms who have been featured on the blog. These nuggets of wisdom from newlyweds might help you on your own wedding planning journey. Happy planning!

General Advice

Budget Flexibility
Weddings can be as cheap or expensive as you make them! We gave ourselves plenty of time to save money and got crafty with the bridal party, enjoying many pre-wedding weekends together.
Choose Positive and Energetic Vendors
Hiring upbeat and energetic people can make a huge difference to the overall vibe of your wedding.
Brides, Give a Speech Too!
It’s 2019, and there’s no reason why the groom should be the only one making a speech. After all, you probably did most of the planning!
Etsy Is Your Best Friend
For unique, handmade items, Etsy can be a lifesaver during wedding planning.
Invest in a Videographer If Possible
Moving images from your wedding day are priceless. If you can fit it into your budget, it’s worth it.
Eco-Friendly Confetti Tips
Use petals as confetti since they are environmentally friendly. However, avoid very dried petals—they can get stuck in your hair and cause a mess.
Personalised Cufflinks for the Groom
Custom cufflinks, like ones with map coordinates of where you met or initials, add a personal touch and enhance the groom’s style.
Stay True to Your Budget and Style
The best part about weddings is that everyone does it differently. Don’t compare your budget or style to others—focus on what makes you happy.
Honeymoon Registry
Even if you don’t want gifts, a honeymoon registry is a great way for guests to contribute towards something meaningful.

Planning Tips

Feed and Hydrate Your Guests
Guests care more about food and drinks than centrepieces, so invest in catering and go local if possible.
Communication Is Key
Keeping everyone on the same page reduces stress and avoids misunderstandings.
Embrace Plan B
Things will go wrong, so having a backup plan for key elements can save you stress on the day.
Don’t Stress the Small Stuff
Focus on your love and commitment to each other rather than perfection.
RSVP Tracking System
A simple RSVP tracking system helps manage your guest list and budget efficiently.

Make the Day Your Own

Focus on What You Love
Inject your personality into the day—whether it’s food, music, or decor—make it about what you both enjoy.
Skip Traditions If They’re Not for You
You don’t have to follow every tradition. We skipped the first dance and bouquet toss, and our wedding felt more authentic.
Custom Balloons for a Unique Touch
Personalised balloons with names and the wedding date can make the venue feel unique and serve as fun photo props.
Do What Makes You Happy
At the end of the day, it’s your wedding—don’t let others’ opinions sway you. Choose the things that make you smile.

Getting Organised

Prioritise What Matters
Focus your budget on things guests will remember—good food, an open bar, and interactive elements like a photo booth.
Look for Bargains Online
Platforms like eBay and Facebook Marketplace have great deals on wedding decorations and accessories.
Delegate Wisely
Identify reliable friends and family who can take charge of specific tasks to lighten your load.

On the Day

Take Time to Enjoy the Moment
The day goes by in a flash, so make sure to pause and take it all in.
Stick Together
Many couples say they barely saw each other on their wedding day, so make an effort to stay close and share those special moments.
Capture Candid Moments
Trust your photographer to capture the day naturally—don’t stress over staged photos.
Ask for Help with Cleanup
Don’t be afraid to enlist friends and family to help clear up afterwards.
Savour Every Detail
From the smell of flowers to the laughter of guests, try to be present and soak up every bit of joy.

Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime event—embrace it, personalise it, and most importantly, enjoy every second! 💖