An Introduction to Orthodox Weddings

An Orthodox wedding is a deeply spiritual and symbolic ceremony rooted in centuries-old Christian tradition. It is not merely a legal contract, but a sacred union blessed by God, often held in a richly adorned Orthodox church with candles, incense, and chant echoing through the sanctuary.

Unlike many Western ceremonies, there are no vows exchanged. Instead, the focus is on divine grace and the eternal bond being formed. The Orthodox wedding typically consists of two main parts: the Betrothal Service and the Crowning Service.

1. The Betrothal (Engagement)

The ceremony begins at the entrance of the church, where the couple is welcomed by the priest. After a short set of prayers, the exchange of rings takes place. The rings are blessed and placed on the couple’s right hands (as in Orthodox tradition, the right hand is associated with blessings), symbolising the mutual promise and God’s presence in their relationship.

2. The Crowning

This is the heart of the Orthodox wedding. The priest places crowns (Stefana) on the heads of the bride and groom. These crowns represent the glory and honour God bestows upon the couple, as well as the martyrdom and self-sacrifice required in marriage. A ribbon usually connects the crowns, symbolising unity.

The couple then partakes in the Common Cup, a shared glass of wine that represents the sweetness and sorrow they will share in life. This echoes the first miracle of Jesus at the wedding in Cana.

Finally, the couple is led around the altar three times in a ritual known as the Dance of Isaiah. This procession, accompanied by hymns, symbolises the journey of their new life together, guided by the Church and God.

3. Tradition and Family

Orthodox weddings are often grand celebrations filled with rituals, family involvement, and feasting. The presence of a Koumbaros or Koumbara (sponsor or godparent of the marriage) is essential—they assist the priest, witness the marriage, and serve as spiritual guides for the couple.

4. Symbolism

Every element of the Orthodox wedding is rich in meaning:

• Candles represent the light of Christ.
• Crowns symbolise honour and sacrifice.
• Wine speaks of shared joy and sorrow.
• The Walk reflects the couple’s journey with Christ at the centre.

Conclusion

An Orthodox wedding is more than just a union between two people—it is a sacrament, a mystery, and a lifelong commitment made in the presence of God and the Church. Its beauty lies in rich symbolism, timeless traditions, and deep spiritual meaning.

Since most priests do not conduct the ceremony in English, it’s essential to have a reliable wedding photographer like Viva Weddings. We’ve captured many Orthodox weddings and understand the full sequence of events. Even when the service is held in another language, we know exactly what will happen next—so we never miss a moment that matters.

If you’re planning an Orthodox wedding, feel free to contact us for more details. We’d love to have a chat about your special day.